- Stayed sober after getting the gentle let-down of being passed over for the job I recently interviewed for.
- Made lemonade out of disappointment-lemons by telling another military spouse about the job opening.
- Created a stay strong outlook with “Survivor” by Destiny’s Child on my playlist and “You Can’t Keep a Good Woman Down” by Alice Walker in my hand.
- Listened to my Italian Songs playlist, a gift from my newlywed friend Ashley.
- Check, check, check, check, checked all the boxes on my to-do list!
Keeping perspective in the face of disappointment is difficult at the best of times. Going on five hours sleep, functioning without your partner, and resting your hopes of paying your hefty student loan bills on the outcome, disappointment can feel overwhelming. At first. “*Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.” It is normal to feel disappointment, hurt and angry. Yet, these flashes are temporary states of emotion. With practice and perspective, I can weather such storms by keeping my eye on the sparkling vision of an engaging vocation and financial stability; which is so pretty, why waste time dwelling elsewhere? Forward!
*Recently, I’ve read that Haruki Murakami is credited in some places with this quote or with referring to it, though it is also a common spiritual edict in eastern religions, and more frequently in western phillosophies.)
Since I passed on the opportunity to open up my own “whinery” yesterday, I decided it was high time I shared these enchanting photos I snapped at the Bagliesi Winery outside of Agrigento on Sunday. Enjoy!
Now, we’ll take an imaginary step back in time with the help of the Hipstamatic.
Take a moment to stop and see the vines.
And finish with a lovely path down which your mind may wander…